Intimate, Inclusive, Unique & Wildly You Ceremonies

You’re one-of-a-kind, so why settle for a cookie-cutter ceremony? Your wedding should scream you—fun, uplifting, and packed with all the feels!

I’m Susan Young, your friendly Humanist Celebrant and I’m here to make your ceremony unforgettable. Whether it’s laughter, tears, or a mix of both, I’ll craft a day that’s as unique and fabulous as your love story.

Oh, and did I mention? I’m legally authorised to marry you in Scotland! So, let’s make it official with a ceremony that’ll have everyone talking (for all the right reasons).

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Whether you’re planning to elope on a misty mountainside or say “I do” in a swanky castle dripping with chandeliers, I’m here for it! Your wedding ceremony is the heart of the celebration—the perfect moment to tell the story of your journey so far, your dreams for the future, and the love that brought you together.

This isn’t just a box to tick or something to rush through before the party—it’s the moment where all eyes are on you. It’s your time to shine, laugh, cry (happy tears, of course), and share that unforgettable first kiss.

A Humanist Ceremony is all about inclusivity and individuality. While it doesn’t include religion, it’s not anti-religion either. We embrace free-thinking and are all about creating a happy, meaningful life while supporting others to do the same.

With me, you get a ceremony that’s 100% you—crafted in your style, with your vibe, and in a way that feels just right.

Oh, and in case you’re wondering: I’m based in the Scottish Borders, but I’m a happy wanderer! Whether it’s a Highland peak, a loch-side retreat, or the grandest castle, if it’s in Scotland, I’ll be there to marry you.

Oh, and did you know? I’m also available for…

Vow Renewals

Celebration of Life/Funerals

Names, Identity and Affirmations

Lovely things folk have to say…

Christina & Ryan Carberry

We contacted Susan a month or so before we were due to get married and she worked so hard to put our ceremony together and make it so special to us as a couple, we had a zoom call with Susan, we were both nervous about doing the zoom call but Susan made us so at ease and after the call we just knew Susan was the perfect celebrant to conduct our wedding ceremony.

When I first read the ceremony I was feeling emotional reading it to Ryan, it was perfect the way you put it all together.

We were both very emotional and happy at the same time as Susan really made out ceremony so special for us and our family.

Our guests loved the ceremony, everyone including ourselves loved the part where Susan read out the 5 things we love about each other.

Carberry Tower, 24th February 2024

Guy & Roxane

We felt so relaxed through the whole process.

The ceremony felt like “us” and our friends and family thought the ceremony was very reflective of us. The story telling was great – they loved how personalised it was, how relaxed it felt, light-hearted and well articulated.

We truly had the BEST time and cannot stop thinking about how lovely it all was.

Prestonfield House, 8th June 2024

Megan & Mark

Hey Susan! Just coming down from the wedding high and wanted to thank you for the best ceremony. It was perfect! I was feeling all the emotions and felt like I didn’t get to portray my thanks enough. We had the best day ever. Wedding blues are hitting hard right now! You were great, we had such a laugh!

Schloss Roxburghe, 24th August 2024

Robbie & Paula

Hi Susan, thank you for marrying us, you done us and the ceremony proud, it was amazing! We feel that you put your hand into our hearts and pulled us through such an emotinal, small but timeless journey, thank you very much xx

Buccleuch Hotel, 2nd August 2024

Jess & Kane Dark

I don’t even know where to start with saying thank you to you! I can’t every put in to words how grateful we are for you, your talent, your energy just everything!

Our wedding day was so special because of you and your gorgeous words. You made our families feel so special and included and made Kane and I feel at ease and full of so much life! We keep reliving the ceremony and I’m so glad we were able to be calm and present to take in absolutely everything, and we think that was down to you! So thank you so much for everything!

Thank you for sorting the car parking, the paperwork, the spot for champagne, thank you for keeping the mums calm, just everything! You did everything we could have ever dreamed of and more!

St Anthony’s Chapel, 17th September 2024

Beka & Konnar Stenhouse

Susan led our daughter’s weddiing ceremony-what an amazingly brilliant day!

From start to finish Susan supported us, creating a ceremony totally personal to our family. We wanted something different, the bride and groom wanted their ceremony to be a complete surprise – so Susan even coached the father of the bride to take a main role in the ceremony!

We had a beautiful, crazy, loud and chaotic day full of surprises that we wanted, safe in the knowledge Susan had us covered with her guidance and beautiful words that so fitted the bride and groom’s personalities!

Susan will make sure you have a unique ceremony, in exactly the way you want it.

Karen Stenhouse.

Leith Arches, 28th September 2024

Wynne & Lewis

We just wanted to say a huge thank you for making our wedding ceremony so special! It was everything we had hoped for—personal, heartfelt, and truly memorable.

Your warmth and the way you spoke about our love made the whole experience unforgettable, and we’ve had so many guests tell us how much they loved the ceremony. We really appreciate the extra effort you put into making it feel so unique to us.

Thanks again for being such an important part of our day. We couldn’t have asked for a better celebrant!

Roseberry Steading, 5th October 2024

Picture this: your guests wiping away tears of joy one moment and doubled over in laughter the next—all while celebrating your love story. That’s the magic we’ll create together.

Your ceremony can include everything that makes your story uniquely yours. From the hilarious moments when you first met to the adventures you’ve shared and the life you’re building together, we’ll craft a celebration that’s heartfelt, fun, and totally you.

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With a Humanist ceremony, you’re in control. Whether it’s filled with romance, humour, or a little bit of both, we’ll make sure your guests feel all the feels. Your ceremony will reflect your style, your personality, and the bond you share—it’s the ultimate way to tell your love story.

Here’s how it works: we’ll chat, I’ll write, you’ll approve, and on the day, I’ll bring it to life—and declare you married!

Ready to get started? Let’s book a Zoom chat and make some magic happen. I can’t wait to hear your story!